Book illustration, Jessie Willcox Smith
Susan here, with tales of bears and bunnies, lambs and kitties—soft, plushy friends who have been with us for a long time, or have left memories and tracks in our hearts. Recently the Wenches were chatting about the “teddy bear hunts” that neighborhoods around the world have been creating for children walking around with their families. Setting a teddy bear or stuffed friend in the window to greet a child walking past is a gesture that’s one of the bright and wonderful lights emerging from the gloom of these challenging weeks. We began sharing stories about our own favorite teddy bears and bunnies and other cuddly toys, and the comforting joy of those friends when we were kids. And since it’s just past Easter, it seemed like the perfect time to share our stories with you . . .
Anne here:
I was never much of a doll person as a child. I grew up with animals -- real ones. Until I was four, we had dogs, cats, a pair of goats, two cows (one of which always had a calf) a sheep (a lamb we raised each year until it got too big) and poultry of various kinds. So it's not surprising that I wasn't interested in dolls. But then there was Teddy, and he was my best friend. I don't remember not having Teddy. There is a photo of me when I was two or three, and they had to stand me on a cake tin to keep me still, and there I am -- holding Teddy.
My Teddy is balding and his feet and hands are patched, and he only has one eye -- I took him to kindergarten once, and some rotten kid pulled out one of his eyes. My godmother, who came to us every Easter, was a toymaker (among other things) in her spare time, and I remember her replacing Teddy's very worn and possibly holey hand and foot pads, and she did offer to replace the missing eye, but I wouldn't let her. I was worried it would hurt him, having a big needle stuck into his head -- and he'd been brave enough about the new paws. Besides, I didn't mind his missing eye -- I loved him all the more for it.
I still have Teddy. Almost all my childhood belongings were passed on or tossed out, but Teddy survived — I think because, being deeply suspicious of my mother's habits, I took him with me when I left home. The only other toy that survived is Snoodle, a lambswool rabbit made by one of my father's friends who was recuperating from something in hospital and given "occupational therapy" -- so he made me Snoodle. And of course, you can't give away such a personal gift, so Snoodle survived and came to live with Teddy and me again after my parents died.
This Wenchly conversation started when we were talking about people putting teddies in the window to add a little interest to cooped-up kids, and to make the neighborhood a friendlier place and so, here are Teddy and Snoodle in my front window.
Pat here:
I am Leo, hear me roar! And apparently I knew it at a very early age. When I was six, my baby brother got a beautiful stuffed lion for Christmas. I coveted that lion more than any of the gifts I received, none of which I can remember as well as that lion. I even had pictures of me and the lion on Christmas Day, although in dividing up old photos, my brother apparently got that one. The details are muddy, but eventually that lion ended up mine. It slept with me well into my teen years. By that time, I’d had to sew on new button eyes and patch his mane with gingham and calico patches left over from sewing projects, and he was about as dirty and scruffy as a lion can be, because he wasn’t washable. He quietly disappeared sometime between my getting married and my mother throwing out everything in the house when she moved. I hope he received a decent burial. He was a good protector for years.