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Susan/DC

When my children were very little and my husband and I were consistently sleep-deprived, we would trade off childcare so the other could nap. When the boys were a bit older, they got used to hearing me say "play quietly for a little bit so Mommy can nap, otherwise she will be very grouchy". Now, however, I take far fewer naps because, like you, I find that I wake up confused and out of sorts rather than refreshed, and if I nap too late in the day I have trouble falling asleep at night. Sometimes, however, just as when the boys were small, naps are still required. Then, as suggested in your post, it helps to set the alarm so that I can truly relax knowing I won't oversleep.

Louis

I have the dubious "honor" of dozing off while talking to my boss.

Of coarse this was way back when I was working and going to school at the same time and very sleep deprived.

He kidded me about that quite often.

I can still doze off almost any time.

Anne Gracie

Thanks, Susan. Good to know others struggle with it, like me.

They say that lack of sleep (at night) can have a cumulative long-term damaging effect so napping is a good way to rectify this.

Anne Gracie

Louis, that's very funny. But you must have been working very hard, doing school and working. No wonder you were tired.

I have always envied people who can just doze off — though not at work. LOL.

I was once at some friends place and we were watching some movie on TV. All three of them fell asleep in front of the TV. The movie finished. They didn't wake up. I turned off the TV. They didn't wake up. I cleared away the cups and snacks. They didn't wake up. Finally I went home.

Mary Jo Putney

Let's hear it for naps! Back when I had Real Jobs, I'd always hit a mid afternoon slump and not be good for much of anything. After I became self employed. I found that if I do a lie down before a meal, after I eat I can work all afternoon. Then I do a lie down before dinner, and am bright eyed and productive all evening. Everyone needs to figure out their own body requirements, but this works for me.

(By lie down, I mean I don't always actually nap, but it's restful enough that I do have the energy later.)

I do know that as a kid, I sturdily resisted all attempts to make me nap. It wasn't until much later that I figured out that it was my mother who wanted to rest. *G*

Jenny Reid

Consciously napping in the afternoon never works for me, but a boring day can put me to sleep at the drop of a hat. Once I was running late for a university lecture, rushed in and sat in the front row and immediately went to sleep. The lecturer/tutor never let me forget. Comments like 'well rested today are we?' became common. And my first foray into Spain absolutely horrified me when I discovered nothing open during siesta. A waste of good sightseeing time as far as I was concerned.

theo

The only time I was ever able to nap was when I worked midnights in hospital. I worked 7p to 7:30a three nights a week, had two young girls in school and would never get more than three or four hours sleep before I had to get up and start picking up kids and delivering them to sports and such. Then home to cook dinner and ready for work again. At that time in my life, I fell asleep the minute I stopped moving!

Now, I'm much more like my regular self and find it impossible to sleep during the day. Which is maddening because I don't sleep much at night either. And when I do sleep, I wake wondering where I am. Not good.

Anne Gracie

Mary Jo, that's great. As for the lying down, yes it's restful — if you're not fretting about not being able to nap. ;)

I've also considered learning how to meditate.

Jenny, I'm grinning about your lecturer never letting you forget you'd dozed off once. Serve him right for being dull.
And my reaction about everything closing for siesta was the same as you the first time. Now I kind of like it, and like the idea of having more night-life.

Anne Gracie

Theo, that sounds like a dreadfully long shift — why do they do that, when they KNOW people can't work 12 hours straight and still be efficient? And one place where everyone really needs to be efficient is a hospital.

I can just imagine how tired you were and how easy it was for you to fall asleep. Much like Louis, you were effectively working two jobs.

I'm a light sleeper, too, which is why I want to learn to nap.

LouisaCornell

I encountered the same sort of "nap" culture when I lived in Germany. Shops closed for two hours at midday - enough time for lunch and a nap. I must admit I rather liked it. Then when I was singing naps were essential. We traveled quite a bit from venue to venue and often took naps on the train. We usually didn't rise for the day until around 10 or 11 AM. After brunch we would go to the opera house and conduct an abbreviated rehearsal and sound check. We then returned to the hotel room and had to eat no later than 4 PM. Back to the opera house by 6 PM for makeup and costumes. Curtain up at 8. Final bows at around midnight. Off for a late supper and then in bed by 3 AM only to do it all over again. I found I could nap in the makeup chair much to the dismay of the makeup artists!

I love an afternoon nap, but I can only get one in on my days off. Fortunately my dogs and cats are VERY nap oriented! The moment I turn down the bed and turn out the lights they are perfectly happy to hop into bed and nap with me!

Margot

I'm terrible at taking naps. Even if I feel tired, I still can't fall asleep. And if I do, once I wake up, I'm definitely the grouchy sort.

Anne Gracie

Louisa, I'm impressed — falling asleep in the *makeup* chair??? Wow — that's serious catnapping.

Sounds like an intense and exciting period of your life. I didn't know that Germany shut down for a couple of hours, too — I've always associated the practice with more southern/warmer climes. And I've only ever been in Germany in winter and I don't remember it happening then. How interesting.

And yes, most animals very sensibly nap.

Anne Gracie

Margot, I suspect we're kindred spirits — in nap terms, at least.

Cara Elliott/Andrea Penrose

Anne, I can nap really easily in planes or trains, or waiting somewhere like a doctor's office, but I rarely sit down on purpose for a nap. When I hit that sluggish spell, I often do the opposite, like go out to do some exercise. That always leaves me feeling refreshed and energized (the endorphins which are released in the blood stream!) But on the rare occasions when I do lie down for a little snooze, it's quite nice. I may have to rethink my routine!

CateS

Napping is the greatest thing invented!! love my little afternoon doze..

Donna

Oh dear... I'm reading this post right after lunch at the office, and I would *love* a 20 min. nap right now!

I take napping in spurts. When I'm doing it (after work in the late afternoon), I can doze off pretty quickly and then wake myself up after 20 min. feeling refreshed and relaxed. I've learned the hard way over the years that if I go longer and let myself really sleep, then I'm a bear when I wake up.

Anne Gracie

Andrea, I envy your ability to just drop off. Exercise is something I used to do more often in lieu of napping — I used to take my dog for a walk, and I'd always come back refreshed.

Thanks, Cate, from dropping by. Happy snoozing.

Donna, according to some of the articles I read, your workplace would be much more productive if they allowed all their employees an afternoon nap.

Patricia Rice

I always have a mid-afternoon slump but I use it for email and mindless activities like checking the wenches. :) I've tried to nap, but it's a certain invitation for the phone of the doorbell to ring.

Isobel Carr

I WISH I could nap! I can only do when ill.

Jo Banks

Nap? What is a nap?That i cannot do years ago when i was expecting my son I was ordered to 'rest' in the afternoon all I succeeded in doing was get a headache!As for sleeping when travelling no way I always need to know where I am,I think I subconsciously dont trust the driver not to get lost!I have a friend who sleeps at the drop of a hat turn the tele on and she is gone.In fact she records everything just in case she misses the end of a programme ,generally she misses the middle and part of the start as well!

LouisaCornell

Anne,

I lived in a little village just across the border from Salzburg. I can't say that I noticed if the midday closing was just a Bavarian practice. I do remember the stores were open longer in the evenings and I assumed it was to make up for the midday closing.

kate

My husband regularly takes a nap. I find a twenty minute nap on Sunday afternoon nice sometimes - although I usually feel guilty for not getting enough done. My body wakes up on its own after about 20 minutes. My mom used to do that - take a 20 minute nap in the early afternoon. She found that she could accomplish a lot more for the rest of the day.

Barbara

Excuse me ... yawn ... it's nearly time for one of my 10 minute naps.

Judy

I need an afternoon nap, and it needs to be about two hours. I only sleep about 4-5 hours at night, so the nap is a must. I've tried doing the 20-30 minute nap and even only an hour, but I wake up feeling sluggish. I wake up after two hours without an alarm. If I sleep longer at night, I tend to have nightmares. Becoming self-employed was such a blessing to my weird sleep schedule.

Ella Quinn

I'm also a non-napper. Or only when I'm pregnant (not likely to happen again) or ill. My mother said that from the time she brought me home from the hospital, I was up all day and slept all night. Even 24 hour duty in the Army didn't turn me into a napper.

Anne Gracie

So interesting that so many of us find it hard to nap. And that others of us just drop off at any opportunity.

Thanks so much — it's been a fun discussion.

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